Hi, how are you? I'm 5'8, brown eyes, reddish brown hair, average sized (10/12) but I'm smaller on the top. I'm chatty, happy and smiley. I can be a little shy at first but then I start to open up as I get comfortable. Once I get over the shyness, I'm very open and always looking for new ways to have fun.
I'm a grad student and I have a part time job. My field becomes more lucrative as I get more educated on theories related to the field and gain more experience. I'm single and bored with being single.
I like to read, watch movies, listen to music (rock, pop, oldies and jazz mainly), cook/experiment with recipes, go shopping, hike/take walks, go exploring in different areas, sleep (never get enough time to do that one though!).
Anything else you want to know, just ask!
4esme, 39
currently offline
Ventura, CA, USA
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Hi, how are you?
About Me
Gender
Female
Orientation
Straight
Height
5'08"
Weight
160 lbs
Body Type
average, slender
Movies
sci-fi, comedy, horror, action, steamy, indie, animation, classics, psychological thrillers, mockumentaries
Orientation
straight
Eye Color
brown
Hair Color
auburn, red
Ethnicity
African American, Middle Eastern, Inter-racial, Mixed Race
Relationship
single - never married
Have Kids
no - definitely want them though
Education Level
post-Graduate, Master's Degree
Profession
Artistic / Musical, Education / Academic Research, Entertainment / Media
Income level
that's private
Do you smoke?
no - open to dating smokers though
I currently live
alone
Socially, I am
shy at first, but warm up quickly, better in small groups, comic relief, loner
Political Views
independent
Food Related
Candy is a Food Group, Right?
Personality
nerd, type a, fun loving, preppy, introvert, romantic, intellectual, loner, lover, geek, pirate, fashionista, coffeeholic, artistic
Individuality
nudist, psychic, pirate at heart, artist
Religious Views
Not Religious, Not Religious, but Spiritual
I'm looking for
travel companion, the yin to my yang, romance, relationship, dating, fun, conversation, something interesting, soulmate, mr. right
My Sign
leo : july 23-aug. 22
Pets
No pets allowed!, No pets currently (but like them)
Gender
Female
Music
Punk, Alternative Rock, Classical, Dance, Hard Rock, Heavy Metal, Hip Hop, House, Indie, Jazz, Jazz-Fusion, Karaoke, Metal, Motown, Opera, Pop, Post Rock, Progressive Rock, R and B, Rock, Techno, Trance, Ska, Soul, Funk
Hair Style
curly, straightened
Fitness & Sports
yoga, swimming, golf, tennis, walking, pilates, bowling, hiking, dancing, ballet
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